I’ve been at my office job for about two years now and have rejected every “happy hour” offer, and every night out offer by my co-workers, I also don’t go to any events. I’m just being honest, I tell them “no” straight up and after the first 2-3 “no’s” they got the hint and stopped asking. I don’t care how “rude” I look, I’m with these people for 8-9 hours per day, why would I want to spend more time with them after? I already barely have any time to myself, sorry I’m not gonna go get drunk with you so you can try and expose me for something. Also these people make 2-4x my salary and want to split tabs, get out of here. Like yea, of course you can blow money on drinks and eating out multiple times per week, I’m barley above the poverty line